You will be challenged to adopt a facade to meet others expectations. Don’t pretend to be different, and don’t pretend to be the same, to satisfy a desperation. When you pretend to be something different than you are, you lose the essential talents of your individual genius; and as a result, lack both the ability to provide your unique value, and lack the personal gratification of fully empowered service to others.
Providing your talents to others is like finding a true relationship. You can have many insignificant ones, mostly toxic. Or you can stay true to yourself, what you can offer, what you value, to your purpose, and to your integrity. When you do, the right person (and opportunity) will eventually manifest, purely because you focused on your own growth, because you concentrated on providing authentic care, and because you never surrendered your good conscience.