rbibbs
12-20-2003, 03:54 PM
This is a 'fringe perspective' on Coach's Dec 16 musing on the same subject. The "fringe" part comes from the fact that I'm 140# and 57yo, not likely to be a live combatant in either sport or street, but I can project the outcome objectively nonetheless, and if you're looking at defense-training strategies (as distinct from sportfighting strategies, which this doesn't really address) you might find yourself at a similar crossroad, wondering which path might best serve you.
In my teens and 20s, in the only "real" confrontations I've experienced, I won by freezing. In these isolated incidents, the 'opponent' was looking for a reaction, either an escalation or a retreat on my part; I gave him neither. Whether he was intimidated by my stasis ("I'm bigger, he's not cowering, maybe he knows something")... or bored ("I wanted a fight and he's not giving me one"), the situation was averted. "Won" meaning, I got the outcome I would have chosen, namely, nobody got hurt. These were postural confrontations, not attacks; I wouldn't want to have to "count upon" freezing as a widely-successful strategy.
Positive Reaction? Were I to engage in a contest of who could dump the most endocrinology into a situation the fastest.... well let's just say I wouldn't want to count on that strategy either. Very unlikely I'd be attacked by another 57yo, and if I were foolish enough to get into an 'escalation race' with a 20-something street punk, there is little question where that would end up.
Reflex? Let me tell you a story about that. I knew a female Karate blackbelt. Strong "reflex" background. She was accosted by a larger male. Thinking "she could handle him", she escalated. He got inside her strike range (grabbed her), and all her reflex solutions went out the window immediately. The outcome was very disfavorable to her.
Response. It's going to take me more dedication, sophisticated development of attributes, over a longer period of time. But I have already determined that in a "real life" situation, I can't win by getting more "out of control" than my attacker. Nor can I rely upon a narrow skill-set, learned in haste and isolation, that my attacker is very unlikely to respect the limitations of. The "response" option recalls my real-life defense successes... that I measured the threat and met it with calm resolve... and I'm firmly convinced this is the path to "most effective defense training strategy". And if I'm not attacked (the most likely scenario), I'll have a lot more challenging, engaging, productive time training than I would have either by practicing reflex forms or adrenal excursions.
Rick
In my teens and 20s, in the only "real" confrontations I've experienced, I won by freezing. In these isolated incidents, the 'opponent' was looking for a reaction, either an escalation or a retreat on my part; I gave him neither. Whether he was intimidated by my stasis ("I'm bigger, he's not cowering, maybe he knows something")... or bored ("I wanted a fight and he's not giving me one"), the situation was averted. "Won" meaning, I got the outcome I would have chosen, namely, nobody got hurt. These were postural confrontations, not attacks; I wouldn't want to have to "count upon" freezing as a widely-successful strategy.
Positive Reaction? Were I to engage in a contest of who could dump the most endocrinology into a situation the fastest.... well let's just say I wouldn't want to count on that strategy either. Very unlikely I'd be attacked by another 57yo, and if I were foolish enough to get into an 'escalation race' with a 20-something street punk, there is little question where that would end up.
Reflex? Let me tell you a story about that. I knew a female Karate blackbelt. Strong "reflex" background. She was accosted by a larger male. Thinking "she could handle him", she escalated. He got inside her strike range (grabbed her), and all her reflex solutions went out the window immediately. The outcome was very disfavorable to her.
Response. It's going to take me more dedication, sophisticated development of attributes, over a longer period of time. But I have already determined that in a "real life" situation, I can't win by getting more "out of control" than my attacker. Nor can I rely upon a narrow skill-set, learned in haste and isolation, that my attacker is very unlikely to respect the limitations of. The "response" option recalls my real-life defense successes... that I measured the threat and met it with calm resolve... and I'm firmly convinced this is the path to "most effective defense training strategy". And if I'm not attacked (the most likely scenario), I'll have a lot more challenging, engaging, productive time training than I would have either by practicing reflex forms or adrenal excursions.
Rick