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jimmy23
11-03-2003, 07:02 PM
Often times, I find myself drifitng into emotional states that are angry or depressive. Almost without exception, these are preceded by some sort of negative thought about myself. WHether it is about my job situation, my romantic life, or my physical condition, the initial thought will grow and seems to feed off my mental energies, until I am in a bad mood for no good reason. I have begun to call these thoughts ghosts, because often they come out of thin air(seemingly) and have no objective truth. Despite this I still suffer their effects- distraction, anger, body aches from excess tension.


In the past, I ahve probably tried every method known to man to dispell these ghosts. Alcohol, drugs,sex, food, sleep, none has consistently been effective, and often the side effects are worse than the symptons.

The Training Log section here has inspired me to be more consistent with my training, and more aware of the flowof my workouts from day to day. This greater consistency and awareness has led to an ability to train at higher levels of intensity , more often, than ever before. And what I have noticed is the grounding effect of an intense training session, how the ghosts seem to lose their strength, and disappear early in a training session. The challenge and pain of a workout seems to me like a furnace, where what one really is, is purified , and the illusions that we cling to are consumed. I become more focused as the fatgiue grows, and the ghosts and the accompanying symptoms fade away. The internal dialogue stops, and at the very end of the training sessions, when I stand at the end of my garage in the cool night air, the silence of the night is matched by the silence in my mind, and the heightened awareness of my physical self.

Training has many benefits, from health to coordination to a better physique,but for me, those moments of silence are the most valued pay offs from my training.

Scott Sonnon
11-03-2003, 07:39 PM
With all of the hubbub of running several companies, writing, training clients, multiple project R&D, meetings, meetings, meetings, and oh yes… meetings... the silence that training brings is more precious than gold. That's literal for me. I could easily continue to improve our "financial" situation even more by working through my training sessions, but the quality of life instantly decreases. No ‘gold coin’ can replace the sanctuary training brings. I feel out of whack and I can't mitigate crises as clearly (and many less things become a crisis). But moreover, without those training induced moments of quiescence, the noise overtakes my head, the inner pansy crawls his putrid self out of the sewers and the negative chatter starts...

When I train consistently and truly, I stay centered, grounded, focused and… progressing. Yes, the ghosts get burned in the furnace. I like that quite a bit, James.

As the Dog Brothers say, higher consciousness through harder contact...

Doug Szolek
11-03-2003, 11:45 PM
Thank you...

11-04-2003, 08:08 AM
Was thinking about this today. Tuesday is new release day at Tower. Getting a new CD and the workouts that follow with it in the headphones is no doubt my threapy. That hour of my music, body, no thoughts and no noise "improves the silence " for me.

Bill

rbibbs
11-04-2003, 11:26 AM
Awesome quality-of-life link James, thanks.

I sure recognize that emotional spiral. It started pretty shallow when I turned 30, moved from Hawaii to OKC, displaced from my physical activities, surfing, climbing, hiking. I remember thinking at the time, "that's kid stuff, time to outgrow it and just work like everyone else". (Yeah right.) 20 years later the spiral was all I had, and it was a whopper, consuming all joy and energy in sight.

I was a peace/love/cannabinoid hippie, self-identified as the next-to-last candidate for combat arts on the planet, after Santa Claus. But I was cornered. In an aging-animal-on-the-plains metaphor, I had to fight or wander off into the woods toward the inevitable. At which time the tribe and I discovered each other.

It wasn't an "I need saving... We'll save you" kind of discovery. It was a "Hey that's cool, you think I could do it?... I'm sure you can" kind of discovery. And from that point on, you've already told the story James.

There's peace-of-mind, plausibly attainable through philosophy or religiosity. Then there's peace-of-being. Living true to one's instincts, even though they may clash with one's adopted philosophy, or "cultural norms" of age-appropriate behavioral pursuits. An individual, or a culture, thwarts its own instincts at grave peril.

We're very fortunate to be able to say to ourselves and each other, "Welcome to who you are".

Rick

Chuck Kechter
11-04-2003, 01:52 PM
There's peace-of-mind, plausibly attainable through philosophy or religiosity. Then there's peace-of-being. Living true to one's instincts, even though they may clash with one's adopted philosophy, or "cultural norms" of age-appropriate behavioral pursuits. An individual, or a culture, thwarts its own instincts at grave peril.

We're very fortunate to be able to say to ourselves and each other, "Welcome to who you are".


Very nice Rick! Beautiful words. . .

Chuck

poidog
11-05-2003, 10:28 AM
Bill Fox said:
I doubt going to a Dog gathering, with those, ah, how should I say this, maniacs, in less then top shape is too fun.
Actually, still quite fun, just a LOT more painful! :D

And Coach Sonnon said:
As the Dog Brothers say, higher consciousness through harder contact...


Here's one that I believe came from Marc Denny (Crafty Dog of the Dog Brothers), "There are few things that focus you in the here and now than a 32" piece of rattan buzzing by your head" or something to that effect. I must admit that lately I've been feeling a great deal like Jimmy23 described at the top of this thread. A combination of laziness in both diet and working out, but helped along by life's occasional, yet inevitable, kicks to the groin.:shock: But reflecting on my training/fighting with Dogzilla lately, I believe the fights to be my "furnace" in which I can ash my ghosts. I hope that soon I can up the intensity of my training to where it becomes yet another furnace. Thanks for all the inspiration, gentlemen. And great topic thread, Jimmy23!

RBibbs:
Howzit, brah?! :)